2018年6月英语四级阅读200篇第88篇：你能做到不抱怨吗思维导图

HowLongCouldYouGoWithoutComplaining

BaseballfansaregearingupfortheWorldSeries,butweallknowwhat'stherealnationalpastime:complaining.Couldyougowithoutgripingaboutanythingforaday?Foraweek?

AcoupleofeditorsatSlate'sDoubleXwomen'ssitearetryingtogoawholemonthwithoutcomplaining.BothJessicaGrose,managingeditor,andHannaRosin,foundingeditor,sayonthesitethatthey'vegrownconcernedaboutover-relyingoncomplaintsingettingthroughtheirjugglesMs.Groseisnewlyengaged,Ms.Rosinmarriedwiththreeyoungchildren.Overthecourseoftheirefforts,thetworealizehowmuchoftheirinteractionswithfriendsandcolleaguesarebasedonthecommoncurrencyofcomplaining.

Ms.Groserecountsarecentpleasantdriveduringwhichsherealizedshewasenjoyingagoodmomentinherlifeandhadnothingtocomplainaboutwhichledto"atwingeofpanic"attheveryfactofhavingnothingtocomplainabout."Thisshiningmomentofwhine-freelivingmademerealizehowmuchkvetchingIdoonadailybasis.IfIamhonestwithmyself,Iwouldestimatethatabout70%ofthethingsthatcomeoutofmymoutharegripes.Good-natured，often,butstillnonessentialandsometimesobnoxioustoothers."

SoMs.Grosedecidesto"trytostopcomplainingentirelyaboutsmallthingsandquitexcessivelycomplainingaboutthebiggerones,"foramonth.Sheenlistsherboss,Ms.Rosin,intheefforttoreachastateofmore"mindfulcomplaining,"asMs.Rosintermsit.

Ms.Rosinrelatesherowntaleofaddictiontocomplaints:Aftershegripedaboutkeepingupwithherchildren'scomplexscheduleofafter-schoolactivities,herhusbandmadeupaweeklyscheduleandposteditonthefridge."Inearlykilledrum.Honestly,itwasourmostdramaticmaritalfighttodate.WhywasIangrywithhim?Ittookmeafewdaystofigureitout.Becausebyhelpingtosolvetheproblem,hehadrobbedmeofmyGod-givenrighttocomplain."

IcertainlyjoinMs.GroseandMs.Rosininspendingafairamountoftimecomplaining,especiallyatwork.Aswe'vewrittenaboutbefore,atsomeworkplaces,peopleendupspendingmoretimekvetchingaboutworkthanactuallyworking.Mostofourgripestherethesedayscenteronournewpublishingsystem,whichremainsabitbuggyafterfivemonthsofuse.Butthere'ssomemodestenjoymentincommiseratingaboutanexperiencewe'reallgoingthroughtogether,andforthemostpartI'mfortunatenottohavetrulyawfulworkwoestocomplainabout,myco-workersaretalentedandconscientious，andthesectionweproduceissomethingwecanbeproudof.

Ihavefewseriouscomplaintsathome,either.Wehavetheusuallittlesqualls,butmywifeandIoftenremarkhowmuchweenjoyourchildren,ourfriendsandeachother.Itrytolookonthebrightsaidmostofthetime,soIfeellikewhatevercomplainingIdoisn'tadebilitatingprobleminneedofaggressivecorrection.

Howaboutforyou?Whatarethesourcesofyourbiggestcomplaints?Doyouthinkyoucomplaintoomuchathomeoratwork,andcouldyouseemakingaconcertedeffortoversomeperiodoftimetocutback?Doyouthinkyoucouldgoonacomplaintfast?

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